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Do you think bullying of any kind can cause serious damage to a person i also think bullying gos unnoticed by?


people because it gos on behide every ones back

Of course it can. It can and does cause life-long psychological problems that can ruin whole lives. Bullying very rarely goes completely unnoticed, but it very frequently goes ignored. The reasons why people bully and the reasons why people allow themselves to be bullied are many and very complex and it is, to an extent, human nature. Nobody really knows how to deal with it so a lot just ignore it and be glad its not them who is the victim.

of course, both adults and children have committed suicide because of bullying. there are some horrible people in this world, hopefully these bullies will get their just deserts!

Bullying can cause death. It is very dangerous. It should be watched out for more than it is.

Yes it can cause psychological damage to the individual including suicide.

My son was bullied in school and I put him in Tae Kwon Do classes to defend himself. We also taught him that those who bully have issues themselves thus trying to transfer their problems to a person.

I would report this bullying to the school and possibly to the police. There is something going on in a bully's household that causes them to behave this way.

It's hard to accuse someone if no one speaks up.
The trouble is getting kids that are getting bullied to speak up about their problems. It's something that people like to think that we are more civilised now adays. And that we wouldn't act that way.
We still act the same as we did one thousand years ago. Times change. People don't.

Bullying definitely causes damage not just immediate damage but it can cause long term mental anguish that can take years (if ever) to recover from.

Yes, it robs a child or even an adult of the peace of mind of knowing they're "ok". It is often done by weak people against stronger people who find themselves in a position of not being completely able to "fight back".
It is a misconception that the person being bullied is the weaker one and also insulting to them. It doesn't make a person weak because some low-life is shouting abuse or hitting or whatever. It doesn't make a person strong because they've "stood up for themselves" and hit back, either.
Just about every adult you meet who has sorted out their feelings later in life after being bullied will be those people who are interesting, go-getters and do-ers.
It is always surprising to find a bully who ends up being successful later.
Bullies are pitiful and have weak characters. I say weak because it takes strength to say: "I'm unhappy" to another instead of taking it out on someone who they see as getting on with life and following their own path.
I certainly didn't fit in at school and was bullied by - bizarrely - a couple of pip-squeak twin boys. I put with it for a whole year with no one helping me. When I finally left and travelled the world, I went back for a visit and found they were both grossly overweight, one was divorced and never helped out his children and the other was married living in a crap part of town with about 6 children he couldn't provide for.
I smiled......Oh, yes, I smiled.

Bullying can cause serious damage, because of it i now have avoidant personality disorder, major depression, PTSD and i self harm i have tried to commit suicide because of this three times.

Bullying is extremely destructive. About five years ago I took an employer to court (and won) for bullying. It almost destroyed me and has left me with anxiety which I still suffer from. I am extremely outgoing, loud and confident person but the whole affair made me feel suicidal at the time. Bullying is so dark, it done so subtly - if you complain you look petty so you keep your head down. Slowly your confidence goes. It is terrible - like you are being surrounded by wild animals waiting to rip you apart!. Before this happened to me I was very flippant about bullying but now I realise how destructive it can be. Now, if I see someone being bullied I find it very uncomfortable and will stick my neck out and step in.

bullying scares people for life makes people totaly go into them selfs nasty people who do this

I think bullying can cause damage to a person, but you have to be strong enough for it not to bother you. Maybe talking to someone can help. Please don't let anyone bother you.

I used 2 think that it didn;t matter, but I think it seriouly can do.
I don't know why but it does.

I definately think bullying contributed to me developing an eating disorder because it really knocked my self esteem and yes bullying either goes unnoticed or when it is it is often ignored and the victims dont want to say anything through fear.

yes, bullying of any kind can cause serious damage to people- physical, verbal, emotional... its all hard to cope with.

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