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I have a big problem, bullying and rumours please help. I'm a very sensitive person and i need help.?


I am getting bullied at school by both girls and boys and I'm trying to forget about it becuase I cant stop them and everyone hates me for absolutley no reason and they're so cruel, and if that wasnt enough my neighbour just instant messaged me and said people she knows from my school are saying i talk about people behind their backs and are spreading rumors about me. She refused to tell me who it was. I cant take this anymore instead of enjoying my weekend i am miserable just thinking about how im going to go to school tomorrow. Im crying my eyes out and I dont know what to do please help me. I havent done anything to deserve this. i thought it couldn't get any worse but it has. Please help me.

I agree you must tell an adult. I know it is very difficult. Talk to your counselor at school. My counselor was wonderful, and when things got too tough for me she would let me stay in her office. Good Luck.

OMG you poor thing. Just dont pay attention to them. Smile and be nice back and eventually it will stop. Dont think about them over the weekend, just enjoy the weekend :)
Feel better

did you talk to a teacher? a counselor? the principal? your mom? you need an adult to intervene who can help you. I am sorry about this and I know what you are going through. Stay tough, try to find a group of people at school who can keep you safe, if that is impossible, please talk to an adult. and don't let them get you to fight or get you in trouble, because that's what they're trying to do.

I wish you the very best of luck!

I feel your pain. It's very hard to get them to stop by yourself. You need some adult help. It is against the law for you to be harassed by other students. If you don't want to have adults get involved then you could try this.

Make a list of all of the people who are causing the trouble. Also, write down what the issues are. Start with the person who you can approach privately and talk to her/him. If you do it in person it will be better. Don't call or text them. Explain yourself and don't be confrontational or accusing. Say the truth and say you're sorry (even if it wasn't your fault). And tell them how much it hurts to be teased. Do this with each of the others. It may not go away 100%, but at least you made the effort to explain yourself and clear the air. Good luck 2 U.

I feel really bad for you! First of all you must tell your mum or dad, do not keep this to yourself. Get your mum to phone the school and sort this out. Please don't go to school and let them do this to you. I hate bullies!! People can be so cruel and there are like this because of there own insecurties. If you don't go to the head teacher they will continue.

Stand up for yourself. Breaking the law is never a good idea, but you could always fight back. Who cares about rumors and talking though - it's just words - words is nothing.

Be cool though - don't be all crying and freaking out - you know that phrase What would Jesus do? - well just think "What Would Paris Hilton / Donald Trump Do?"

I feel for you. Bullying is a horrible, low and weak thing to do.

Do you have ANYONE you can speak to? Could you speak through your neighbour and ask where this is coming from?

Do you have any interests outside of school? Any talents or just something you'd like to find out more about? You've got a powerful tool, literally at your fingertips here - get online and look for some clubs in your area.

Can you speak to your parents or family? They really can help. It may just even help you to speak out loud about the situation to someone - they don't need to talk, just to listen to you.

I was bullied myself at school. It took me a while to get used to the situation but when I did, I realised that these people were jealous of me. Afraid of me. They wanted to keep me down. I ignored them every day. Eventually i joined a club and found a group of people who were like me. These bullies seemed even less important after this and eventually they melted away...

A good one to think about is joining a drama club. This can bring out your confidence and brings instant 'rewards' by people reacting to and appreciating what you do.

I wish you the best of luck. You really deserve it.

I know it is hard. The more you let them know it bothers you the more they will do it. You have to ignore them.
Your other options are to laugh with them. Laugh and say things like "yeah I thought the *hat* was silly too and I wanted to give you all a good laugh. I am glad you all like my sense of humor"
Or you can make funny smart @$$ remarks, but not insulting directed more at yourself like but can't be turned back on you.

Often people make fun of what they don't know or else what they fear. Try being more outgoing and fun.

This is the best answer to your problem.. Make sure you rate it so. I'm sure you did something in the past to have a few people hate you.. next thing you know they are telling their friends about it.. and it carried on and on. There is not much you can do. Tell your parents the problem. Tell them you want to transfer to a different school. Once you are there.. don't make enemy's. Hopefully you have another school to go to. If not.... Ask your parents to tell your teachers about the problem and have them aware of the problem.. so if something seems wrong.. they'll be there for you.

I could talk to you about this if you like.

Talk to a adult and tell them about your probelms I had the same problem as you a long time ago I did that and it stopped

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