I hate my life?

I hate my life. Everything is falling apaprt. Nothing makes me happy anymore. My kids don't listen to me. My husband does nothing but sleep all day and doesn't like to talk to me. I feel like I'm just in the way and that no body cares anymore. I'm 7 months pregnant and I'm scarred that things are just going to get worse after the baby is born. And I also think that my mood and stress lately is going to cause me to go into preterm labor. Do you think anyone will miss me if I just walk out the door and never come home again?

why do all women blame life problems on hormones?

Your family needs you, and you need your family. You may not think this sounds true because of the way you are feeling, but it is.
If i was you i would sit down with your husband and just talk. Or go to a health spa by yourself and just relax and d-stress.
Then when you come back, you may feel more appreciated.
My dad left me when i was young, it was the hardest thing in my life. DONT do that same mistake please. It will only get worse.

Your not mental, your just troubled, and it is a good start that you are asking for help. But i think in the long run, a counseller would help more.
Many wishes to ya.
xx

First off calm down....

You are pregnant your emotions could be getting the best of you. Your husband may be frustrated about life situations and stress at the house with the kids not listening and such.

Heck Yeah! I would die if my mom left and never came back seriously I would acctually commit SUICIDE and i would also have hate in her for giving up on me and my brother and sister please stay with your kids never give up on them even if they seem and act like they don't care about you talk to them maybe they dont relize that their doing it please dont give up on your kids.

YOU'LL REGRET IT.

I'm so sorry for you. Sounds like you're definitely overwhelmed. I'm sure you'd be missed if you walked out on your family. It sounds like your in a real bind and I don't know what to tell you that would help much. What's with the husband? Is he a bum, sick, addict, night worker? No doubt, it's a bad situation. E-mail me if you want to add details.
I'm friendly, understanding and will try to help.

I agree with what the other girls have posted here. You are having a rough time because you're feeling emotional. These concerns are valid however, it just feels particularly rough due to your active hormones. Talk to your husband, take a break from life and spoil yourself. Tell your husband how you are feeling though. He married you because he loves you, and I know he does not want you to feel this way.

You'll make it through this- and soon you'll be so happy you did!

your hormones aren't in check because you are pregnant. if these feelings are still around after the baby is born, find a therapist. talk to your husband or a close friend about your worries.

nope no one will miss you(break) they hate you(break) and you shouldn't take it anymore(break)walk out the door and never come back. pb

Wow, I am sorry you are feeling so very low in life. I cannot say it is hormones, although it could be a contributing factor.
To me it sounds like your not being appreciated at all. Perhaps a few days of makeing hubby do his own meals and take care of the kids, and letting you go take a couple days and put your feet up, at a friends or a hotel, would do you some good. Give you some balance back into sanity.
Don't leave for long...sounds like the ship would sink...but set some boundaries. Let your family know..."hey I matter"...Sometimes people need a slight taste of "you don't know what you got til its gone, treatment." But you got children and one on the way...so not permanent please.
Take care of that baby in the oven and you for a few days.
Cry, laugh, watch some chick flicks, and eat what sounds good to you when it sounds good to you. After you get back, hopefully the gang at home will appreciate you much more.
You are doing the hardest job out there. Wife and mother.
You need vacation time!!!! Keep your chin up, take a step back briefly, and then go back into tackle the issues with a clear mind. Get some R&R. Your worth it. You cannot help anyone else in your life if you don't take care of yourself.
Your not alone. I wish you the best.

I think you have momsyndrom not hormons lack of appreciation do something for yourself. Have your husband take care of the kids for the day if doesn't want to give him no option just walk out the door and go see a movie, get your hair done, a complete makeover.

As for your kids not listening to you try disaplining them more. If you tell them something and they yell and scream just ignore them when they talk to you it will be hard on your part and they will get angry but it usally works. You have meaning in your life you just have to remind yourself. Other people won't make you happy you have to make yourself happy.

Yes they would miss you. Life is just a test isn't it, it'll pass.
Just think of it as a storm that will pass. Things will get better honey , I promise. Start reading your Bible, it helped me when I was married the first time and REALLY stressed.

You are seiously depressed. You are so depressed that you family might be avoiding you. You are the only one that can make you happy.Don`t just stay there and wait for people to come dancing and saying jokes in front of you.Off course your family will miss you, you are a mom and if you choose to walk the door and never come back again you have to put yourself thi question: Do I really love my family? Don`t I wanna stay here to see my children grow? Since you are pregnant you must know your child feels your mood, there is a special and strong bond between a mother and an unborn child. We all have this moments, life is not perfect, but try to get a grip. What are your hobbies? Try to do something you used to like, maybe it will come back. And about your problem that your children don`t listen to you: SHOW THEM WHO`S THE BOSS! You are the mom and they are the children.
Good luck girl and I hope you do well.

Call the Super Nanny and get some depression meds. Doesn't your little guy have it worse than you? He had a rough start. I think he would notice you were gone.
You KNOW the stress can cause PTL. Having another preemie is NOT going to help you at all. You'll have to be away for longer periods of time. You have to wait until nurses are ready for you to hold your baby... Then you would be wondering how things are falling apart at home. Unless the rules at the NICU have changed you can't bring your boys in there. You'd have to figure out how to juggle home, the NICU AND child care... You don't need that on top of everything else.
Have you tried marriage counseling? They could help you talk to your husband so he hears you. They could also write that prescription I suggested.
Lastly, women always think it's hormones because it is. I'm not saying that life doesn't suck sometimes but it's about how we REACT to it. That's the only thing we have control over.
If you just walk out we'll see your face all over the news. People will accuse your husband of getting rid of you. You'll have to repay the search efforts... It could be much worse.

Lifes a ***** and you deal with it.. haha.. no i think you see life all in how you look at it... You should be more greatful for what you have... Is there a reason that you kids dont listen to you and your husband would rather sleep then talk to you... Life isnt easy but i bet you could change your life to be more the way you want it. Lighten up a bit... nothing is that important to stress you out that much... remember life is short dont waste it being angry and stressed.