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I'm pregnant and have personal and financial problems i feel down lately i just hate everything?


im lossing my 2 houses my credit is ruined i have to file bk and i dont have the moral support of nobody not even my bf he even gives me more problems and makes me feel worst i don't like feeling like this, and i'm very concerned of getting post partum depression (baby blues) when the baby comes, i had it with my first kid and lasted 5 years is the worst feeling i wanted to kill my self and my kid, i'm very scared, i have a 3yr old and when i was pregnant of him i was scared too fortunately nothing happened, but this time its just too much i can't handle it anymore, please help.

Turn to Jesus. He will heal you, strengthen you and give you strength to cope with all the pressures of life. Jesus can turn your life around, and give you hope, joy, peace, contentment.

Killing yourself is NOT the answer. Your life belongs to God and so is the life of your unborn child. Go to church, seek help.

Your life matters because God loves you. NOTHING SPEAKS MORE CLEARLY OF GOD'S LOVE THAN THE CROSS. Faith in Christ is not a leap into the dark; it's a step into the Light.

Trust me. My life, too, was in a mess before I turned to Jesus. Now He's turned my life around. He will do the same for you, my dear, because He loves you so much and cares about you and your family more than you realize.

"No one is hopeless whose hope is in God."

"When we put our problems in God's hands, He puts His peace in our hearts."

See a therapist. And you might want to try relationship counseling, because your boyfriend doesn't sound very supportive. Normally I would say dump him, but with a kid on the way, this could be very difficult.
Just hang in there, because you will love that little baby so much! You may have post-partum depression again, or you may not. It's not a sure thing, but please don't harm yourself or your baby.

Talk to your doctor about it. He or she has heard it all before. The post-partum depression can be fixed with medication.
Two houses! You only need one one maybe you are too greedy and thats why you lost it all.

seek help....

hang in there!! i have three of my own children and one neice that i am raising. with my last child i had the baby blues bad. talk to your doc and get on some meds when the baby is born. some people don't like to take them but sometimes you have to. u are not alone, just know that there is a stranger out there prayin' for ya!!!!

I don't understand why you are even having a child under such circumstances. If you have been depressed so long, why did you even get pregnant? It was very irresponsible. You created your own issues, and you will have to deal with the consequences. If you have no support and are suicidal then maybe you should put the 3yr old in foster care and get yourself in the hospital. It is not a pleasant answer but you do not have a pleasant situation, and being a good mother requires making decisions that are good for the child, not yourself.

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