Should I tell my ex-girlfriends parents about her adderal addiction?

My ex-GF has had an Adderal addiction since we started dating. It really effects her life and effected our relationship heavily during our five month campaign. My ethical dilemma is whether I should say something or not to her parents. She's 31 and I fear she is killing herself slowly with all the amphetamine she puts in her body. She thinks she NEEDS it to function but I know this is hogwash...all addicts think they need what they are addicted to. My concern is that her parents might think I'm doing out of spite or anger and I'm really not. I genuinely love this woman and this was a problem I was working on with her. My gut instinct is to tell them so they can get her help and be damned if they hate me or not. Any thoughts?

If you love her, tell them. It will be hard, and who knows how they will react. Whether they act like they believe you or not, they will look for signs when they are around her. If you truly love her, and aren't doing this out of spite, you will not feel guilty if you decide to tell them.

I'de leave a note from anonymous.

why didn't you think about telling them while she was your girlfriend. that does make it seem like you are doing it out of spite. If you had the erg to tell them when you were dating then that's when i think i would have mattered. If she really has a problem then go ahead and tell them if you really think they can do anything about it.

tell them they might see the problem too And you can work together on it.

always follow your gut
you are doing it out of love so do it. at the end of the day you only have to answer your actions to yourself anyway, not to others opinions... go with you heart
hope she and the parents work through this... its a common problem and your trying to address it, its important. most leave it until 10years later and they have little chance of changing things..

I would tell them, and I think that you are doing the right thing for the person you love, even if she doesn't realize now, she will, eventually!!!
Hope she will get better.

ex-girlfriend = none of your business anymore, your just trying to get brownie points. It's only going to backfire and push you to farther away. 31, she's a big girl honey. She's going to have to make decisions for her self.

i think you should keep this info to yourself. the women is 31 years old. shes old enough to figure out that she is ******* up her life. not only that but what are her parents going to do, ground her? come on now. if your worried about her, than tell her. tell her she needs to stop and she needs to get help. but you can only do so much. you can't help and addict who doesn't want to help themselves. :/
good luck.

You should have done it sooner but it's never too late, always follow your gut, if you think they can help her get some help then absolutely tell them. Frankly I think that Adderall is just legal speed that is being very abused.