My Sister is A Compulsive Liar & Mother: She's Abandoning Her Kids & Killing our Mother Slowly!! Please Help!?

I'm not sure what else to do here, but commit her to a STRAIGHT Jacket!! This girl is TERRIBLE! She has two young daughters & its killing my mom, who is being left to raise them! My mom is aging & fragile, cries everyday and now has onsets of chest pains from all the pressure. She went to the hospital 2 days ago with such High Blood Pressure she could've had a STROKE! I've read all about Compulsive Liars and followed many forums & threads. They all give ONE (1) of TWO (2) remedies:1) Professional Counseling 2) Leave them alone.. BUT We can't do either: 1. She wont even admit she's lying 2. Its Family: her daughters' (my nieces) wellbeing is at stake! So in the end we succumb to all the foolishness for their sake, but its killing us all. Her fiancee left her for the same & now she's back at mom's house & comes home to her kids just 1-2 Xweek!!! Their father is at wits end too. What can we do?? No funnies PLEASE No we're not taking the kids to an orphanage or giving them up for adoption!

Well we have the same situation my mother is aging and has some illnesses to and my niece also cries everyday. Its up to you to help your mother with the children And while youre at it discipline the children act as a father and brother to them well my sister also left her fiance so the father of my niece doesnt visit them anymore all youve got to do is be the brother of the children And plus your nieces wellbeing is not at stake all youve got to do is keep the children away from her and when the time comes the children wont even know who she is then your sister will be feeling personal guilt. All youve got to do is treat your nieces like family ask for others help whenever you can

As long as your mom is a doormat, your sis can act however she wants to with no consequences.

Maybe the dad needs to step up and do his part, by taking his daughters in (live with him) and your mom needs to start being strong. Next time your sister comes knocking, your mom shouldn't let her in. Just cut all ties, as hard as it maybe. This is your moms well being and sick she is no use to anyone, your mom has to start putting herself first.

You can be supportive to your sister and still protect your nieces. You need to get the local child protective services agency involved. They can award temporary custody of the children to the family, and if needed, can decide how often your sister can see her children. It's a sad situation, but it seems that your sister needs help. It may also be that she needs medical help: she may be bipolar, in which case she'll need medication for the rest of her life. Your mom can get help from local nonprofit organizations, too, but she needs to ask for it. You can research local agencies (try calling United Way), and see what's available.