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Preg at 12 HELP?


i was rapped now i am pregnant at 12 wat to expect help i dont beleive in abortions

well my mom and dad said they treat as there own but how will i tell the baby when she gets older she will treat me like a sis when i really am her mom

I hope you've informed your parents at the very least. At this point, if you don't believe in abortions then the only thing you can do is tell your family what has happened, and then get as good prenatal care as you can possibly get. Taking care of yourself AND the baby is very important at this point. You should also look into adoption agencies. There are many who will have the adoptive parents pay for all prenatal and hospital costs as well as many of the things you'll need along the way (maternity clothing, Lamaze classes, etc).

The first step however is to SPEAK TO YOUR PARENTS ABOUT THIS.

You need to seek counseling not just for the rape but for all that is ahead.

Oh sweetie I'm so sorry to hear that. Well I think you are right by not believing in abortions. That's a good start. I recomend that you get therapy and of course prenatal control for the baby and yourself. Never stop going to the doc specially since you are so young. If your parents are there with you, always ask them for advice or any other famly memeber, don't just go to any other person. Ask family or professionals. Good luck.

Have you reported the rape to the police? If not, you need to do so immediately. They can also put you in contact with the proper counceling and doctors and get you all the help and support you need. Good Luck!

1st, if you haven't told some one YOU NEED T O.
2nd if you haven't been tested for a bunch of sexually transmitted diseases YOU NEED TO.

only you and your family can make the decision about your child. do what feels right. adoption is and option if you can't handle raising the child (with the help of your parents I hope)

whatever you do, seek medical attention and counseling.

prayers with you

Iam so sorry to hear about what happend to you. So you get help you need to talk to someone. Just remember this is nt your fault. As for the baby just tell it hte truth. When is old enough just say mommy was raped and that is how i got you. You didnt do anything wrong and it sounds like your parents are doing the right thing. If for someone reason you dont wont you give it away. jsut be carfull jsut talk with your parents about you feelsing you mom should be able to help and just tell them your concerns. You just need to talk to someone. Well good luck and god bless you.

I think that you should go see a counselor. And if you dont believe in abortion, why dont you have the baby and put it up for adoption? It is just another idea, if you dont want to have to keep the baby. I am sorry to hear that. You should really talk to your parents about what is best for the family.

But i thought you didn't have your period...
ooh nice.. i see you've made your answers/questions private

Omg that is so wrong. Do u wanna have the baby?
Who raped you?
Omg email me at daniascott63@yahoo.com with the answers

Wow my heart goes out to you and your family, but maybe you and your family should seek counseling and seek spiritual counseling as well, and if you dont believe in abortions you should consider adoption? Thats if your not up to raising a child and want your child in a better environment ( not saying you are living in a bad environment) its just something to think about..

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you are lying about something, because on the question above it says you havent gotten your period yet!
if that REALLY happened then you could always look at adoption, your parents will back you up. if your baby looks at you like a sister it'll be ok you will find some way to discipline him/her

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