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PLS help me? im going through so much! can u help?


ok so i had sex three times
last week and thursday and friday (yesterday and day before)
I took a morning after pill
so that kills for thursday and friday
but not last week
ofcourse we were unprotected
and my seal that makes blood come out didnt break till friday
does that mean im not preganat... i will take a test just in case
the worst thing is my parents are making me get an abortain... i hate that... but the reason why, pls dont criticize me, is because im 13 and my parents already seperated me ffrom my love of my life and we cant have any contact which is so unfair... but if i am pregant wont that have to see who the father of the baby is or the egg that thr going to kill which i kno i hate abortions and dont want it and dont i have a say in it... and i need to see my love again it isnt fair im going through so much depression

as in seal i mean i broke... the blood came out...

13? Love of your life? There is no such thing as a "love of your life" at 13 -- you are way too young and immature. And, evidently, way too young and immature to be having sex at 13. Evidently you are still very uneducated, about a lot of things, including sex and your body.

You have put yourself into this situation, so there is no way you can say it isn't "fair" that you're going through all this depression. You have brought it upon yourself.

Keep your legs closed, and get an education. In ten years from now, you will look back and be relieved you didn't ruin your life by having a baby. Your parents are trying to keep you from looking like a laughing stock with people talking and snickering behind your back, and from looking like a $lut (which it looks like you are heading for.)

AT 13, you don't know what love it, it is merely hormones.

whoa, good luck with all
of that...

You don't even know if your pregnant your getting all worked up for maybe nothing. But maybe this will teach you a lesson.

what are you asking
its you fault tbh, you shouldn't have had unprotected sex.
i know im being harsh and blunt but its what you need. You need some sense put into you head.
What are you on about a seal?? What is a seal???

It's hard to say what you are feeling but it sounds like you are mad at your parents for forbidden you to see your guy... That is a hard thing, especially when your are 13. It is even harder when you are just exploring what your body is going through.

On the other hand, having a baby is really really hard. I have 2 and in my 30s and its hard. Just think about it for a sec, when the baby is sick, you will be the only one to take care of it. Not the guy, unless he is willing to move you into his house. When you want to hang out with your friends, nope you have to bring the baby. I could go on and on about what you will be missing out but it is up to you whether you are ready for that BIG responsibility.

Sounds like your parents care about you, so don't be too mad with them..... Parents are suppose to be the bad guys when you are teenager. Eventhough, as a teenager, you want your parents to give in. However, this is when you learn discipline and balance and avoid temptation. Too much of a good thing may not be a good thing later on.

I don't want to sound like a square but no matter what, you will have to live with the decisions you make whether good or bad.

You are worrying about things that won't happen lie being pregnant. You need to give your time to grow up but right now you feel the need to be loved and that has been the reason you are depressed. Love is there for the taking but take it from God through Jesus.

whoa, its reli kinda hard for a 13 years old girl. But i reli have no comment for those. Just wishing you the best, good luck pal. God bless

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